What should we do?
Our default setting isn’t selflessness. We often judge ourselves by our intentions, but we judge others by their actions. We can be quick to accuse without first looking at ourselves.
But Jesus calls us to live differently:
“Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.”
Matthew 7:12 NLT
Often referred to as the “golden rule,” it’s a brilliant litmus test for discerning how to respond to people in the face of hardship, uncertainty, and pain.
Here are some ways we can apply this verse to our daily lives:
When someone hurts you
Have you ever hurt somebody else, either accidentally or intentionally? And when the mistake was made or realized, did you want to be screamed at and given a harsh consequence, or did you want grace and a second chance?
To the extent we forgive, we are forgiven. So what if today we gave to others the same grace, compassion, and mercy that we would like to receive?
When someone is struggling
When you personally experience hardships, you might seek counsel from a pastor or a mentor, but you probably also want a friend who will listen to you. You want someone to come alongside you who can handle your honest thoughts, and help you navigate the hurt in this world.
Just as we need people to encourage us, we are also called to be that source of support to others. So today, consider what you can do to point people to God’s love and truth.
When someone has annoyed you
People can be irritating. But if you were considered an annoyance by somebody else, would you rather that person talk badly about you, or have patience with you? We are all works in progress, and we are all called to show each other mercy and grace.
So this week, when you’re tempted to lash out at someone requiring a little “extra” of you, or dismiss someone who’s getting on your last nerve, consider thinking: If I were them, what would I want?
If we want to live like Jesus, then we need to do what He asks of us. And Jesus explained that, in order to do that, one profound mindset was required: treat others like you’d want to be treated.
A Gift Worth Receiving
After Jesus healed a man who had been paralyzed for almost four decades, the religious Jews were angry with Him. This may seem strange, because healing is a good thing, but Jesus performed this miracle on the Sabbath—the day of rest. In the Old Testament, God gave believers a long list of rules to follow in order to stay right with Him, and these rules included honoring the Sabbath.
But in the New Testament, Jesus was sent to change our relationship with the Father. By sacrificing Himself on the cross, He gave us access to a relationship with God—so that long list of rules was no longer needed. Throughout Jesus' life, He shows people the nature of this new relationship. But because it didn’t line up with what the religious establishment believed, they were angry with Him.
In John 5, Jesus justifies these changes through revealing His true authority. By calling God His Father, He shared that He was equal to God. This angered the religious Jews, but it gives us a ...